I've been updating my toy box and had a suggestion for a Lovense toy (specifically the Lush 2 or 3), but I like both the G and C and saw a review that this one was stronger.OMG. YES. I am very happy with this purchase. It has preset patterns for when my friend is busy, and he can control it when he's not. He is really good at making up patterns. I see there are other features that I'll try over time but WOW.I like that it bends so I can adjust it just right. I can sit and walk with it on. The sound is low but would be noticeable in a quiet location. However, I would absolutely be noticeable so I don't think that's something we'll do.My only issue is that it kept losing connection to the Bluetooth. It did it several times. That was frustrating because the man can really make a pattern and to get going and then have to try to reconnect it broke the pace.If your hesitant, don't be. I may even get a Lush since I think I might be able to wear in public. It's the C that gets me.